Dating your soul mate style will always be the best experience

Because communication is essential to the bonding process and

it is easier to communicate with your soul mate style.

For dating the golden rule is communication, communication,

communication just as for real estate it is location, location,

location and for an internet business it is traffic, traffic,

traffic.

Sure, it may seem unromantic, but what is the use of dating a

hot number when you cannot connect with them?

When you date outside your soul mate style it makes it much

harder to communicate.

It does not mean that you cannot, or that your relationship will

be doomed, but the vast majority of couples are matching soul

mate styles because they communicate well that way.

Communication is not just talking to each other although it is

probably mostly that.

It is also doing things and saying things that each understands

instinctively, not everything of course, but most things.

It is when you have no idea what style you can get along with

or how to tell, that you are likely to have a less than

satisfactory experience. Dating can be the most exciting time,

or the most boring, or painful, or frightening, or embarrassing

which is why knowing more about your soul mate is important.

For most western societies before you go out with someone

you usually meet them first and decide if there is an attraction

between you. It would be good to do that before dating anyone.

This first meeting can be used to determine how close the

person is to your ideal match if you know the little

giveaways that you learn all about in Romandce tips one and two.

They will tell you what type of personality style the

person is. If that is your soul mate style then it is worth

getting together provided that you find them attractive

enough in other ways.

There are many sites that will advise you on how to act and what

to say with a whole list of do's and do-nots for your first time

together

...but this site is different because It tells you how to

pick a good match-up of personalities so that very little will

go wrong.

When you get along well from the beginning it makes it easier to

sort out any differences later. You can discuss things easily

because you have good two-way communication.

Disasters occur when you are initially attracted so you go out

together, but the other person sees things differently and

communicates differently.

Then there just does not seem to be much common ground so

one of you gets frustrated due to a lack of communication.

That mostly happens when you date the wrong behavioral style.

So read on and find out how you can tell what style you will get

along with the best and how to spot the characteristics of that

style before you date.

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