To recognize your soul mate
first choose your own style below ..

Which one are you? Everyone has a different personality and these can be grouped by certain personal traits or behavioral styles.

There are many personality "types" from the latest articles in magazines or from dating sites or from psychological profiles - there are many of them.

So which one do you use?

The personality types (or behavioral styles) below were first recognized by Hippocrates the Greek physician who lived from 460-370 BC which he called "Temperaments".

Before that Astrology had grouped personalities by four main symbols - Water, Fire, Air and Earth and after Hippocrates came Dr. Carl Jung in 1923 with his book "Psychological Types" which recognized the "Thinker, Feeler, Sensor and Intuitor.

All of these had in common four different styles.

The four behavioral styles below are a practical way to use all of the above information and they focus on two particular characteristics - forcefulness of character and willingness to disclose personal information.

This may sound complex or difficult to understand, but I assure you it will be very easy for you to discover which style you are.

What is not so easy is understanding the style of your soul mate.

You can appreciate your style because it is you and you know you. However it is not as easy to understand another person's style which is why we have given you all the little tips and hints to help you identify your ideal partner's personality when you see it.

Choose from one of these four styles

Considering
Understanding
Determined
Entertainer

The "Considering" style
is non forceful and non disclosing

CONSIDERING styles do not like to openly share information about their personal or private lives (non disclosing), they are reserved (non forceful) and like to be very sure about most things.

They always want to know the facts as supported by a trusted source and are often slow to make important decisions.

They are not naturally animated in either their body or facial expressions, they dress neatly when it counts. They are usually very economical only spending money when necessary and this trait can be thought of by others as being miserly. They do not make decisions based on popularity. Their decisions are very carefully considered and the more factual information they gather before making a decision the better.

Their work pace is usually slower, but steady and they strive for thoroughness and precision.

Most considering types do not like change, surprises or embarrassment. They usually like to finish tasks, be correct and work hard.

The "Understanding" style
is non forceful and disclosing

UNDERSTANDING styles do not mind openly sharing information about their personal or private lives (disclosing), they are reserved (non forceful) and like to go with the flow. They are not naturally animated in either their body or facial expressions, and they dress to please others or attract others.

They can be overly generous, very friendly, and often make decisions based on intuition. Their decisions are based less on factual information and more on the impact it will have on others. Their work pace is usually slow and they strive for friendliness in most social and work situations.

Most considering types love change and surprises while intensely disliking confrontation. They mostly like to do what they think will make others happy. They make very loyal and understanding friends.

The "Determined" style
is forceful and non disclosing

DETERMINED types do not like to openly share information about their personal or private lives (non disclosing), they are quiet when it suits them or while they are evaluating the situation and very forceful and opinionated whenever they feel it necessary (forceful).

They are strongly task oriented and will do what is required to get the result. They are rule breakers and rule makers. They are quite animated with body or facial expressions, they dress to be in strong fashion with power overtones.

Sunglasses are an intimidating must. They are usually very successful and can be thought of by others as insensitive and overbearing. They make decisions based on what it will do for them.

Their decisions are fast and strong and they usually have the last word. If they are wrong or challenged they can easily throw a tantrum and make a big scene. Their work pace is usually fast and furious and they strive for hard work, and anything that will lead them to the top. Most determined types do not like to lose control so everything they do is meant to keep them in control of the situation.

They are very dependable and reliable when the task is serious. They know instinctively how to get things done and if they cannot do it (or do not want to do it) they know how to get others to do it for them. They are natural leaders, but poor sharers of power.

The "Entertainer" style
is forceful and disclosing

ENTERTAINER styles love to openly share information about their personal or private lives (disclosing), they are never reserved can be quite forceful and opinionated whenever they feel it necessary (forceful).

They are strongly task oriented and will do what is required to get the result, but have a disorganized workspace and they frequently get sidetracked by other people and by their non-stop talking.

They are rule breakers, but not necessarily rule makers. They are very animated with body or facial expressions, they dress to be in the latest fashion and quite often lead the fashions. Sunglasses are a fashion accessory must.

They are usually quite successful and may be thought of by others as the entire social committee in one.

They make decisions based on what it will do for their prestige. Their decisions are fast and can be too numerous. If they are wrong or challenged they can easily apologize and get back to today's gossip.

Their work pace is usually fast paced and they strive for hard work, and hard play. Most entertainer types do not like to lose status or prestige so most things they do are meant to keep them in that position.

They are very dependable and reliable and look after other people. They know instinctively how to get people together and enjoy the latest in social events.

Recognize your soul mate style here

If you have then it is time to recognize your soul mate.

The first key is that non disclosing types attract and disclosing types attract, but then one is forceful and one is non forceful.

So, to recognize your soul mate

ENTERTAINERS are soul mates with UNDERSTANDING types

DETERMINED are soul mates with CONSIDERING types.

The gender of each type does not make any difference.

How to quickly recognize your soul mate at first meeting

That will tell you whether or not it is worth pursuing the relationship.

Being able to recognize your soul mate can make it easier to choose the most suitable person if there are multiple choices. Your skills to recognize your soul mate will increase the more you use them which is easy to do at work, when socializing, with your family and extended family, neighbors and acquaintances.

There is not one soul mate for you, but there is definitely a certain type of personality that is your soul mate. You might be able to recognize your soul mate more than once in a social setting which would make it interesting. They would all get along well with you, but of course they would all be a little different too.

When you do finally recognize your soul mate it will not necessarily be the right one
because of differences in maturity, social standing, physical appearances, and other important details that you need fulfilled. It will mean that you can at least get along well together and communicate to find out more about yourselves. If it does not work out you can find another who might be more suitable.

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