How to overcome relationship inexperience and be very confident
It is easy to think that you are romantically inferior because of relationship inexperience, but actually you could be a lot better off than the people who have been emotionally scarred by a bad relationship. Every person who enters a new relationship is learning all over again because people are different and no relationship is the same, especially with a romantic couple. So it is actually normal to feel inexperienced no matter how experienced you are. The real problem is the fear you have. This anxiety can be dissolved very quickly with the patting energy technique. Once it has been removed you will feel completely confident. You will not be experienced, but you will not suffer from anxiety either. You can be relaxed and just make good decisions as you normally would when you are not under any pressure.
Using the patting energy technique to feel great
You will be shown at
Romance Tips Number Three
how to apply the setup, round and remaining round so that you can pat on all the various aspects surrounding this feeling you have about being inexperienced. You will have to make a list of the possible aspects using these examples to jog your mind for more that are relevant to you. I am relationship inexperienced I have never gone out with anyone I have never had sex before I do not know how to kiss I have never been cuddled by a romantic partner I do not know what to expect I do not have enough clothes to wear I do not know how to act I will be teased if the other person finds out I will be teased by my friends when they find out I will be embarrassed & ridiculed Try to make a big list and then prioritize the list from the most anxiety on a point to the least anxiety. Start at the first and use the technique below. When you have no anxiety left on any of the points move on to the next one. The anxiety will get noticeably less as you move down the list and the remaining round may not be necessary on most of them.
The setup and a round
Do not know how to do the patting technique?If you have not practiced the patting technique before you should go to
Romance Tips Number Three
where you can follow through all the instructions. Once you know the technique you can just use the aspects list above for your setups. Need a reminder of the patting points and the technique? You can find that at
The Patting Round.
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