Is soul attraction real or imagined?
Probably both until you are sure. You will often imagine that there is a feeling of soul attraction between you and a potential romantic partner, but until you are more familiar with the other person you will not really know. The greatest love signal is how easily your lives blend together, if you share similar kinds of respect. Soul mates do exist as far as my research goes - out of hundreds of married couples it was very rare to find a couple that did not fit the criteria. One person was always forceful and direct in speech and the other was always quieter and not forceful unless pushed. They both either liked to share personal information and did it freely or they both were very quiet about personal things and never shared it freely. If you need to know what behavioural style you are and how to know what to look for with soul attraction you will find all that explained in detail at
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Harmony is essential
You can annoy your soul mate on occasion and still blend together as a couple in harmony. In fact you can take this as something that will definitely happen, you have to be different to be interesting while still sharing certain qualities. The most important aspect is your sensitivity to sharing personal information. This will establish your potential for harmony when you finally meet and begin to talk because before that your soul attraction was probably limited to physical looks and little mannerisms that excited your prospective partner. Behavioural styles and mannerisms matter and they count strongly when it comes to soul attraction. A person who admires a quieter, neat, organised partner will not be attracted to a flashy, loud and carefree person. The opposite is also true. And a person who admires a strong, confident, businesslike partner will not be attracted to a quiet, laid-back, easy-going person and vice versa.
Soul attraction is deep
The feelings are deep which is why another style to a soul mate style is not very attractive even if their physical appearance is attractive. Not attractive as a long term partner that is, because anyone can be attractive enough for a good time, but if a person is looking for a good relationship they look for certain qualities that are kept deep in their thoughts. So it is not really that surprising it is just that I have been able to put it into more definite terms. It has been happening naturally since man met woman. It is a deep feeling caused by your particular behavioural style. You naturally feel more comfortable with a certain type of person and this is probably the reason so many couples cannot understand each other. They are probably not dating their ideal soul mate style. Next page
How To Recognise Your Soul Mate
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